Aamna Aziz Rajput
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The most complex complexity- WOMEN!
Women. God’s most complicated creation. Conceived the same way as us men, with 23 pairs of chromosomes and with the basic DNA formation, what makes her so difficult to understand? So today I, a 17 year old lad, if not lying then 18 year old will take a shot at understanding this genetically XX determined creature.
Starting from the most vital role she plays in a man’s life; being his mother. The woman, who gives him birth, brings him into the world and nurtures him till the day he needs her to.
"The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new." ~Rajneesh
The one person who cares for him the most on the planet is her. The reason is simple; the child is a part of her. It can be pretty annoying having her walk around in circles behind you, worried, that you might need her, when you are independent enough to nail it yourself. But what we really miss out is her undying love that refuses to fade away with time and space. She scolds you too. Even beats you up in South Asia; because she wants to make sure you don’t hurt yourself. It’s rather silly, beating up your child so he doesn't get hurt from the world. But the bottom-line is, a mother’s beating is a token of love and is only meant to make you stronger, so cherish it because there’s a mother for every child but not all stick around.
And then you grow up. Come out of your mother’s caresses and see woman as rather woo-man. She appeals to you. It’s either infatuation or lust but in simple words she becomes attractive to you in a very non-platonic way, and you like it. You confess your love to her and she is indecisive probably because one of your kinds didn’t treat her well. But once she is sure about you, you mean the world to her. And then comes the misery. She talks her heart out to you and eats away your brain. She empties your credit card and is doubtful about all your female friends. Irritating, isn’t it? But if you look beneath all the gloom, she’s just afraid of losing you. Considering herself not good enough for you. So concluding, make her feel she’s irreplaceable and you are good to go.
The woman that can’t understand YOU is your daughter! You look out for her, protect her and don’t want her to fall for the kind of guy you were like in your days. She’s young and juvenile and thinks you are over-doing it. And wants you to believe that no matter who she’ll be in love with, you’ll be her first ever hero. So give her that space she needs. Come on! She is YOUR daughter after all.
Hence, bringing it to a close. I believe woman are less complicated then we blame them for. Actually we just fail to accept that they are very important to us and our existence is incomplete without them. But still, remaining loyal to my kind I confidently believe that women cannot be understood.
And then you grow up. Come out of your mother’s caresses and see woman as rather woo-man. She appeals to you. It’s either infatuation or lust but in simple words she becomes attractive to you in a very non-platonic way, and you like it. You confess your love to her and she is indecisive probably because one of your kinds didn’t treat her well. But once she is sure about you, you mean the world to her. And then comes the misery. She talks her heart out to you and eats away your brain. She empties your credit card and is doubtful about all your female friends. Irritating, isn’t it? But if you look beneath all the gloom, she’s just afraid of losing you. Considering herself not good enough for you. So concluding, make her feel she’s irreplaceable and you are good to go.
The woman that can’t understand YOU is your daughter! You look out for her, protect her and don’t want her to fall for the kind of guy you were like in your days. She’s young and juvenile and thinks you are over-doing it. And wants you to believe that no matter who she’ll be in love with, you’ll be her first ever hero. So give her that space she needs. Come on! She is YOUR daughter after all.
Hence, bringing it to a close. I believe woman are less complicated then we blame them for. Actually we just fail to accept that they are very important to us and our existence is incomplete without them. But still, remaining loyal to my kind I confidently believe that women cannot be understood.
4 comments:
Interesting :p
However, I disagree, there is something insanely disturbed about women, their 'indecisiveness' and 'confusion' is unjustifiable and can never be understood :)
That is the very reason why this article has such a title. ;)
yes SAM.. but if people try to accept their importnce for once that will help understanding:)
Genetically, women are more complex then men too. They have some 200 more genes then men. Which might answer some of Ali Mehdi's concerns: they got those "characters" after all :)
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